Oh the holidays :) :( Christmas time can be such a wonderful time for so many of us, but for most, if not all, it can also be equally stressful and maybe even a little sad. Being surrounded by so many family members all in one day, or being away from loved ones and having to work. All of these things can add to an array of emotions during the holidays making it difficult to 'get into the spirit." (whatever that means.)
Maybe as you sit and get your last gifts packaged and cards sent out you have a heaviness on your heart. Maybe you are excited about all the family time, and getting to see the surprised looks on faces with presents you have purchased, the food and warmth, but maybe there is a looming within.
As we all gather this season with expectant hearts for having the best Christmas day ever, lets not forget that it is just another day. It is another day to celebrate what God has done, it is another opportunity to grow deeper with a sister or brother, it is another day to give in an unexpected way to a stranger or a friend. Wherever you may find yourself this Christmas remember to bloom where you are planted.
Here is my Christmas Challenge 2014:
Pick out a few different people from your family, church, or workplace and then read up on Love languages and try to pin what love language best fits those people. It will be challenging as well as eye opening and hopefully fun. I think going into Christmas with new challenges and perspectives is a great way to be intentional about our time.
Here are a few ways to 'switch it up.'
- clean up the mess-wash those dirty dishes so the regular person gets a break- give the gift of a clean kitchen. (acts of service)
- Give a few people a hand-crafted encouraging note. (words of affirmation)
- Pull someone aside and ask them how they are really doing (quality time)
- Give someone a present (gifts)
- Surprise someone with a warm long hug. (physical touch)
Good luck!
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